Loneliness is only your heart trying to say...

So... here is the second -blog- that I feel like writing:

Being lonely... is a problem that can creep on you without you ever knowing what it is. Sometimes you just feel so saddened and like everything just really sucks! It's a terrible feeling and it's even worse some times when you finally realize it's just loneliness and you can't do anything about it, or so you think.
Some people think surrounding themselves with people or work or television will make them feel less out of place in the world. Sure it may work for a while... but what about when you lay your head to rest at night? It's such a heavy burden on your heart to feel like you have no one around to love or appreciate you. I know, cause I've felt this sadness... It was a large part of my childhood.
It still is a part of my life sometimes and I feel like I'm beating myself up because I stay in and seem to have no life but a virtual one. Could I change that? Ya, easily. But you know... I don't really want to right now. My soul and my heart however are conflicting.

There is a solution to this. If you're lonely and you don't seem to have a way out... maybe you are like this for a reason. Stop and think for a second; how much time do you spend for yourself? How much time do you take to just sit down and love and appreciate YOURself??
You may think that you need all these other material things and all these friends... but how many of your thousands of facebook friends Actually care about you? How many of the people you call companions actually stop and think to themselves: Hey... I wonder how so and so is doing...?
I'm not trying to say EVERYone is fake, I'm trying to tell you that sometimes the friendship and companionship you need is in your heart, it's right there in front of you and you just need to notice her (or him). The little spirit inside of you gets lonely... and you are the only person who can reach out and take her hand and tell her it's okay.
Do you ever dance around the house with some uplifting music to keep your feet moving? When was the last time you just went outside to BE one with nature! What's the last book you read? The last puzzle you put together? The last picture you drew?

There is no such thing as substitution when it comes to life, it's only a temporary fix for something we don't think we need. There's a saying that goes "noone will love you if you don't love yourself" But the message of that is sometimes misunderstood. You mother still loves you even if you'd dyed your hair, pierced your tongue, and listen to the most obnoxious music... it's just that you two have grown so far apart she doesn't know how to reach out and hold your heart again.
Everyone gets lonely... Especially the people who you would least expect. Ever think that maybe a celebrity sits at home and wishes they had their friends and family there to be with them? The press is hardly a friend... and all of those fans they have, even if they know EVERYthing about them... they know nothing of them.

Don't think that I'm telling you to be alone for ever and only find companionship in yourself. Sometimes yourself can be a little pain in the ass... but other peoples joy... is their own, don't try to take it from them.
Take joy from your own, lonely heart. Lie on your bed and just take some time to think and really discover yourself.

You may find that what you were looking for... was all along standing in front of you and begging for you to notice.